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Widow in bus collision saw her late husband tell her to keep fighting


A widow who was hospitalised following a collision with a bus said her late husband told her to keep fighting because there was โ€˜no room upstairsโ€™.


Carole Attle, 74, from Eaglescliffe, was shopping in Stockton on 28 July last year when she was hit by a bus.

She said: โ€œIโ€™d been in Matalan and had bought a present for somebody, which my daughter found in the boot of my car. After that I know nothing until five weeks later when I woke up in a hospital bed.โ€

Two paramedic crews from the North East Ambulance Service (NEAS) and two paramedics and a doctor from the Great North Air Ambulance Service (GNAAS) were dispatched to the scene to help Carole who had suffered several serious injuries including head trauma.

She was put into a medically induced coma and taken to James Cook University Hospital in Middlesbrough by the NEAS road crew, accompanied by GNAASโ€™ team.

Her daughter Rebecca Dowson, 50, was at work in the library at the same hospital when she was told the news about her mother.

She said: โ€œTwo officers came for me and then I was escorted over from the library to resus to see my mum.

โ€œI was told the x-rays donโ€™t look good, and theyโ€™ve done as much as they can to help her.โ€

Carole was bruised from head to toe and sustained a broken eye socket and nose, three broken ribs on each side of her body, broke the top of her elbow, and suffered a concerning head injury and bleed on the brain.

Rebecca said: โ€œShe spent seven weeks in intensive care and two weeks in the trauma ward, and during that time we had at least four difficult conversations where they advised she wasnโ€™t going to make it.โ€

Carole added: โ€œWhen I was in intensive care I donโ€™t know whether it was real or what it was but I woke up one day and I could have sworn my husband was in bed beside me. He was saying basically thereโ€™s no room upstairs for you and we donโ€™t want you going to the other place, so get yourself pulled round and fighting and get out of here, and I think I turned a corner after that.โ€

She eventually returned home in October but had a care team for a further nine weeks to help with her recovery.

Rebecca said: โ€œSheโ€™s missed a big chunk of her life and is still coming to terms with it.

โ€œEven daft things, like when I first started doing her shopping for her, she thought I was spending a lot of money, but she didnโ€™t realise the cost of living had gone up so quick.โ€

The family live near GNAASโ€™ headquarters in Eaglescliffe, and recently visited to learn more about the charity and offer their thanks for the teamโ€™s help.

Rebecca said: โ€œIโ€™m just in total awe of GNAAS as we see them flying past all the time and I always see them and NEAS when Iโ€™m at work.

โ€œTheyโ€™re both a credit to the area and so are the teams at James Cook. Iโ€™m not normally short of words, but I canโ€™t put into words how I feel about them. They saved my mumโ€™s life thatโ€™s all I can say, Iโ€™ve still got my mum and that to me is priceless.โ€

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